Why I Work Best With People Who Care About People There’s no shortage of advice out there about “finding your niche” as a freelancer. And sure, knowing your niche helps. But for me, it’s never been about industry — it’s been about alignment. Over time, I’ve learned that I do Read more
Why I Say No to Urgent Requests (Even If They’re Well-Paid) A few years ago, I would’ve said yes to anything. Tight turnaround? No problem.Weekend job? Sure.“Can you just…” messages at 10pm? You got it. Back then, I thought that’s what being a good virtual assistant meant — being responsive, Read more
There’s a story we’re told about self-employment. That if you just hustle hard enough, work long enough, post often enough, and say yes to everything, you’ll “make it.” You’ll have consistent clients, a strong income, and that shiny sense of success that everyone seems to be chasing. That never worked Read more
It’s been a while since you’ve heard from me. Update: depression got me once again! Being a virtual assistant with depression, not the easiest thing. Well, being anyone with depression isn’t easy. The truth is, 2024 was hard. I’ve lived with depression for a long time, but 2024 hit differently. Read more
In the whirlwind of our daily lives, we often forget to take a moment for ourselves. We get caught up in the endless cycle of tasks, responsibilities, and obligations, always pushing forward, always striving for the next goal. But amidst all this hustle and bustle, there’s an important message that Read more
My partner and I recently took a significant step in our lives by deciding to foster a dog. We welcomed sweet Bella into our home in an emergency situation. The experience has been very special. Fostering a dog is not just about providing a temporary home; it’s about offering love, Read more
In a world where speed and scale often reign supreme, there’s a quiet revolution brewing—one that champions quality over quantity in every aspect of our lives. Imagine a garden where each bloom is meticulously tended to, where every petal unfolds in its own time, revealing the depth of its beauty. Read more
In a world that seems to constantly demand more from us, there’s a growing movement towards embracing the slow life. But what does it mean to live slowly, and why would anyone choose it over the hustle and bustle of a fast-paced existence? For many, myself included, the slow life Read more
As we step into the promising realm of a new year, many of us are eager to set intentions and resolutions that will shape the coming months. For me, the word that encapsulates my aspirations and goals for 2024 is “JOY.” In a world often filled with challenges, I’ve decided Read more
In the world of social media and constant connectivity, it’s all too easy to fall into the trap of measuring ourselves against others. We scroll through carefully curated feeds and sometimes forget that those picture-perfect moments are just snapshots of someone else’s story. But here’s the thing: We’re all on Read more